every day, excerise and able to access the computer, you function at a very high level >>
I work 3 days/week

by choice but may try and go back full time--because of potential retirement benefits should I be a long-term survivor.
<< As hard as you try there is no blatantly evidence of met disease that is confirmed by an oncologist. >>
I am not so sure of that with the on-going left shoulder, upper arm, and surrounding area pain with possibie enlarged nodes. That pain started 10 months ago. I have pain in my right hip and also pelvic bone and along the groin. I have pain in right upper arm with increased lymphedema swelling--despite regular treatments and bandaging.
I have now developed another bout of dizziness. I had the Epley procedure.
This time it didn't help fully. I have a headache in the back of my head above the neck with a feeling of numbness, tingling along spine. I have shortness of breath--slight--with exhalation. And most recently I have had weird skin stuff going on.
True, my tumor markers have been normal. However, one time when my onc bopped into the room and told me my markers were normal, I handed him a print out of alkaline phosphatase readings. At that point it had made the largest jump since dx'd almost 22 mos. before. It had gone up 20 pts and only was a couple of pts. below normal. With tumor markers one looks for steady increase which is what it had been doing.
My 2nd opinion onc said that people talk of cancer "coming back." He went on to say, where does it come back from--the pathology lab? In other words, the cancer if it shows up in recurrence for was always there.
markers--only symptoms and wants to know all changes, even those that are slight. Another gal on that group was told her markers were normal last
January. She felt fine. In March she had a skin recurrence. 5 weeks later she was dead. That scenario is quite atypical for most cancers--but not unusual for IBC or other pleomorphic variant.
Sometimes the only way to dx bone mets is through a bone marrow biopsy. Latest research reports that would be quite useful or helpful to better treat.
However, the NCI has not adopted that as standard practice, and it usually is not done.